Posts tagged: gratitude
March 1, 2010

Poem for March

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image via glennwilliamspdx

Happiness

There’s just no accounting for happiness,
or the way it turns up like a prodigal
who comes back to the dust at your feet
having squandered a fortune far away.

And how can you not forgive?
You make a feast in honor of what
was lost, and take from its place the finest
garment, which you saved for an occasion
you could not imagine, and you weep night and day
to know that you were not abandoned,
that happiness saved its most extreme form
for you alone.

No, happiness is the uncle you never
knew about, who flies a single-engine plane
onto the grassy landing strip, hitchhikes
into town, and inquires at every door
until he finds you asleep midafternoon
as you so often are during the unmerciful
hours of your despair.

It comes to the monk in his cell.
It comes to the woman sweeping the street
with a birch broom, to the child
whose mother has passed out from drink.
It comes to the lover, to the dog chewing
a sock, to the pusher, to the basket maker,
and to the clerk stacking cans of carrots
in the night.
It even comes to the boulder
in the perpetual shade of pine barrens,
to rain falling on the open sea,
to the wineglass, weary of holding wine.

Jane Kenyon

February 12, 2010

50 Reasons to Love Winter

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vintage print via etsy shop holcroft

We’re deep into February, buried in snow, and spring is way out of sight. What better time to think about the stuff about winter that’s actually pretty grand? Bet you can add 50 more reasons in the comments. And yes, that is a dare.

  1. hot chocolate
  2. dogs in sweaters
  3. miniature snowmen outside convenience stores
  4. slippers (especially the anthropomorphized ones)
  5. babies in fuzzy hats
  6. a big, wrap-it-around-three-times scarf
  7. getting to use that ultra-rich moisturzier
  8. sun reflecting off the snow
  9. blood oranges
  10. big, bold red wines
  11. hiding in turtlenecks
  12. snow days!
  13. the perfect season for knitting
  14. stews & soups
  15. hot tubs
  16. valentine’s day
  17. paperwhites
  18. fondue
  19. warm, boozey drinks
  20. staying inside all day in pjs
  21. shopping (everything’s on sale!)
  22. kale, squash, and brussels sprouts
  23. fuzzy boots
  24. the foam on a latte…pretty soon you’ll be ordering it iced
  25. toe socks
  26. the olympics
  27. liberal use of fairy lights
  28. black tree branches heavy with snow
  29. wearing the deepest, darkest, muskiest perfumes
  30. holding hands inside your love’s roomy coat pocket
  31. knee socks and tights!
  32. fireside brunching, cocktailing, napping, smooching…
  33. quiet, snuggly reading time at home
  34. ski blankets
  35. sheepskin rugs
  36. visiting a sauna
  37. the perfect blush color, naturally
  38. vintage capes — you have one, don’t you?
  39. bubble baths (they just don’t hold the same appeal in summer)
  40. chili
  41. wearing those ladylike, yet sexy gloves that end right above your wristbone
  42. hunkering down under a down comforter
  43. big, sweeping epic novels
  44. legwarmers
  45. the dense quiet of fresh night snow
  46. renewed resolve
  47. getting sweaty outside: snowshoeing, skiing, sledding, snowball fights…
  48. the ultimate excuse to be a homebody
  49. earmuffs — they’re kind of glamorous, don’t you think?
  50. chinese new year (dumplings + noodles, anyone?)
February 8, 2010

7 Things I’m Happy About in Feburary

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my new book club book

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Sonia Rykiel knits for H&M

reflexology

cheap reflexology

lobster

photo via scaredykat

lobsters on sale!

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a Scandinavian-themed dinner party

tigerchinese

Chinese New Year (year of the tiger!)

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a retro-friendly weekend getaway

and what’s got you excited in this cold, dark month of february?

February 1, 2010

Poem for February

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photo via stefski

Aimless Love

This morning as I walked along the lakeshore,
I fell in love with a wren
and later in the day with a mouse
the cat had dropped under the dining room table.

In the shadows of an autumn evening,
I fell for a seamstress
still at her machine in the tailor’s window,
and later for a bowl of broth,
steam rising like smoke from a naval battle.

This is the best kind of love, I thought,
without recompense, without gifts,
or unkind words, without suspicion,
or silence on the telephone.

The love of the chestnut,
the jazz cap and one hand on the wheel.

No lust, no slam of the door –
the love of the miniature orange tree,
the clean white shirt, the hot evening shower,
the highway that cuts across Florida.

No waiting, no huffiness, or rancor –
just a twinge every now and then

for the wren who had built her nest
on a low branch overhanging the water
and for the dead mouse,
still dressed in its light brown suit.

But my heart is always propped up
in a field on its tripod,
ready for the next arrow.

After I carried the mouse by the tail
to a pile of leaves in the woods,
I found myself standing at the bathroom sink
gazing down affectionately at the soap,

so patient and soluble,
so at home in its pale green soap dish.
I could feel myself falling again
as I felt its turning in my wet hands
and caught the scent of lavender and stone.

Billy Collins

January 19, 2010

Thought for January: Joy is Inside You

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image via etsy

There are certain core teachings that can forever shift the way you see the world. “Joy is within you” is one of them. Even if you hear it in purely psychophysical terms, if you really hear it, it’s going to help you recognize one of the most empowering truths there is: It is actually possible to feel happy regardless of how the world is treating you, or how horrible your childhood was, or the fact that all of your friends are more successful than you are. You can even, this teaching implies, be happy when you’re failing at something or when you’re sick.

The process of cultivating joy could look something like this. It begins with the simple understanding that joy is real, and then continues with the decision to tune your mind and heart so they are open enough to feel it. — Sally Kempton, Yoga Journal

December 31, 2009

A Sweet (and Salty) New Year

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I say salty because that’s what catapults these rich cookie bars into another stratosphere. Without the salt these sweet rectangles would be cloying. With that lick of savoriness, a layer of butter cookie topped with a salted chocolate caramel and sprinkled with sea salt becomes otherworldly. One guest proclaimed that these knocked chocolate chip cookies out of her favorite cookie spot.

I say salty also because as filled with as I am with hope, goals, dreams, and expectations for the new year, I’m sure those dark days will come: we’ll get caught in the rain (but not in a romantic way), stay home sick (but not in that mental health day kind of way), and fine ourselves beset by the blues (and not necessarily in a creatively rich Dorothy Parker kind of way).

Just today I woke up with the world unexpectedly softened by snow. At first, it seemed magical in that Christmas morning kind of way. And then I thought of the treacherous streets, worried about someone I love moving from one office to another, just today turning the page on one life chapter. Perhaps the best we can do is notice the flip side of life, and then turn that coin right back to the bright side. That is the art and challenge of living well, no matter how fat your bank account.

Whenever I talk of moving to some fair city and starting anew, a friend reminds me, “Wherever you go, there you are.” The same certainly can be said for money. Sure, some of life’s problems can be banished by waving a wad of cash at them. But the heart of what it means to live fully, ecstatically, confronts rich and poor alike everyday: What is truly meaningful to me? How can I create a daily life that contains my deepest values? What (gulp) is the meaning of my life? And what’s for dinner?

As we approach a new year and the fourth (!!!) anniversary of Pink of Perfection, I want to thank all of you for coming to this site, reading, hanging out in the forum, and most of all, leaving your insightful, funny comments. I have always loved this blog as my creative place; the unexpected joy has been watching it become a gathering spot to the wisest, loveliest blog readers out there. I take great comfort in this community, and I hope you do, too. Here’s to another year of asking the big questions and savoring the smallest pleasures. Happy New Year!

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December 18, 2009

Holiday Meditation

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image via erix!

I thought you might need this today, tomorrow, next week, or really, any time you’re feeling frazzled. This meditation comes from Sally Kempton at Yoga Journal.

A Holiday Meditation

Sit in a comfortable upright posture. With your eyes closed, let your awareness drop into the center of your chest.

Breathe naturally and imagine your breath coming in and out through your heart. Let each inhalation caress and soften your inner heart space.

Become aware of a golden flame in the center of your chest. Your might visualize it or simply feel its warm, glowing presence.

With each inhalation, the flame glows. With each exhalation, it radiates light through the heart—front, sides, and back.

Rest your awareness gently in the flame; inhale and it glows, exhale and it radiates. Keep softening and relaxing the inner heart, spreading the glow of your inner flame throughout your body and out into the room.

November 24, 2009

Countdown to Turkey

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image via retro renovation

Something tells me you dear readers share my deep and abiding love for Thanksgiving. On Sunday, window shopping in a fancy food shop with a friend, I suddenly got an anticipatory thrill so moving I hopped a little. Not up and down, but just up, once.

Thanksgiving wasn’t always my favorite holiday, but it became so when I was about 14. The day took on a hodgepodge element that made it more unpredictable party than overstuffed family function. My sister brought seemingly-glamorous (to a 14-year-old) college friends home, cousins in their 20’s would take the bus out to the country wearing black leather jackets, carrying cheese plates, and with a friend or two in tow, a fix-up could well be in the works, and a to-the-death game of Trivial Pursuit was a sure thing.

Things have settled down a bit over the years as attendees have grown up and coupled off. Sebastian makes a mean green bean casserole, my mom’s mashed potatoes are inspired, and there’s usually almost as much stuffing on my plate as I want. This year my sister is being held hostage in Montana. For the first time, I can’t count on her bloody marys and bold accessorizing. But two of my favorite eaters are driving up to sit at the long table, and I bring with me not a boyfriend but a husband. After the fast-paced flurry of a wedding, it will be good to sit down and have long chats with friends and family over a slice of pecan pie, a midnight bowl of mashed potatoes and gravy, and a glass of wine or five.

What’s Thanksgiving at your house like? Do you host? Is it friends, family, or both? A somber affair or an event where someone always dances on a table? Music for the table dancing after the jump…

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