Cheap and Easy: Ribbon Napkin Rings
I recently took the F train to heaven: a trimming store in New York's fashion district with thirty foot ceilings and ribbons as far as the eye could see. They had unknown yards of velvet, silk, vintage, organza, grosgrain stripes, solids and polka dot ribbons (and this is to say nothing of the bolts of lace, tassels and some true trimming oddities). I was like Maria von Trapp spinning wildly in the hills of Austria; it really took all my self-restraint to not grab a world-weary shopkeeper by her shoulders, shake her, and exclaim that she works in the best place on earth.
But this field trip wasn't just an exercise in appropriate social boundaries, it was a brainstorming session, too. I've been tying ribbons in my hair and around my waist for a while, but I finally wanted to use these beauties for more than just personal adornment. I would highly recommend walking into a notions store armed with nothing more than $5 and a keen imagination. Home sewers (even bad ones, like me) are sort of a relic of the past, and these stores are bustling with an old-fashioned creativity that is really unmatched. And so the ribbon napkin ring was born!
These are so ridiculously simple to make before a dinner party, you can assemble them as your hair is drying and you're debating between liquid or pencil eyeliner. I also decided to throw place cards into the mix, since I think they're a really simple way to make guests feel special. Plus, I find that when people are first shrugging off their coats and settling in, they really do like to be told what to do ("Hey, Lucy, crack open this bottle of champers, will ya?") and where to sit ("Right next to me, handsome.") And it just may be that what's true for an hourglass figure is true for a napkin, too: they both look pretty great cinched tight in the middle.







From there, a lot of other stuff seems to fall right into place: I find myself having cheerful exchanges with the guy at the deli, the line at the bank bothers me less, and I roll my eyes when I spill my coffee rather than having a Starbucks-style breakdown. In general, I am more present in my daily life and I look more kindly at the world around me. Not a bad worldview adjustment for anyone, I'd say, all for the price of pulling out the knitting needles or inviting a friend over for a slice of lemon pound cake.
In the Pink of Perfection, we love the highs (homemade pate and Charles Jourdan) as much as the lows (street hot dogs and three-in-a-pack Hanes tanks), and we adore lots of vintage charm (ladies with gloves and cocktails served with rooster embroidered napkins). We are young, and we live in basement studio apartments with kitchens that may leave something to be desired. We pick up furniture off the street, and we buy chandaliers at yard sales. We plot to make throw pillows for the futon and we
So this website is at once my promise to myself for a creative, yummy, party-packed life, and a place to share those ideas with you. I have some party tips up my sleeve, lots of ideas for crafts with ribbons, and I may even break out the fondue pot.